Define Your Circumstance

It all starts with a birth. That baby becomes a child then teenager, and finally an adult who will make their own decisions and their own life. Who the baby is born to, what the child grows up in, and where the teenager has to live is never that person’s choice but the adult this person becomes is completely and totally that person’s choice. President of High Point University in North Carolina Nido Qubein was once quoted stating, “your current circumstances don’t determine where you go, they merely determine where you start”. Continue reading “Define Your Circumstance”

The Lucky One

I probably should be writing about something controversial. Something about America and its downfall or something about our history and not repeating itself. However, I personally think if you’ve been surfing the web, listening to the radio, or watching the news you’ve probably had enough “doom and gloom” for the week.

I’m not trying to take away from anything going on in the world today, lives are changing constantly, but when all you see is sadness, hate, and pain, it’s important to look for the sun even on the darkest of days. July 3rd  my parents would have celebrated their 28th wedding anniversary. Most couples would enjoy a day on the beach, fishing in the sea, or eating a candle-lit dinner reminiscing about the many years of life and love. If this were 15 years ago, you would see me walking down the sidewalk with a big bouquet of roses and a balloon headed to meet my dad and give him mom’s present. He always forgot the day, but never forgot to buy a gift, and only a man who has been married for many, many years would understand what I’m talking about. But time changes things and nothing stays the same, now the fifteen year old that would run around with her dad’s credit card buying gifts is a woman placing flowers on her dad’s grave as her mother grieves another year without her love. Continue reading “The Lucky One”

The Good Men

Jim Valvano said, “My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person: He believed in me”. I feel I could have said those words myself, because the greatest gift my dad ever gave me wasn’t the hundreds of tops, jeans, and skirts; it wasn’t the afternoon throwing and pitching softballs to me; and it wasn’t even teaching me the valuable aspect of “don’t look at the speedometer, just drive the speed you feel comfortable at”. No, even though all these brought joy, happiness, and smiles, the most valuable thing my dad ever gave me was loving me more than anybody else in this world. Continue reading “The Good Men”

You May Die But Don’t Rust

American educator and president of George Washington University in the 1920’s William Lewis Moore once wrote, “The tragedy of life is not that it ends so soon, but that we wait so long to begin it”. I’ve lived life for 29 years, a life that I was blessed with because the doctors always said I wouldn’t have it. It’s a life that most wouldn’t want which includes doctors’ visits, very tired moments, and daily medications, but it’s my life and as crazy as it sounds I am so grateful for this blessed life. Continue reading “You May Die But Don’t Rust”

When Life Knocks, How Will You Answer?


Vince Lombardi once said “It’s easy to have faith in yourself and have discipline when you’re a winner, when you’re number one. What you got to have is faith and discipline when you’re not a winner”. In the past weeks, I’ve heard crying tongues whine about the world doing them wrong for numerous reasons. They need more money, they want an easier job, and the world is just so unfair. Now I’m the worst person to come to with “poor, poor, pitiful me”. It’s because when somebody says the world owes them, I can’t help but say the world doesn’t owe you anything. You were born, you are alive first off and if you’re an American, no matter ethnicity, class, or religion you were given at birth, you have the ability to change anything and everything about your life. You can go from living on the streets to in a million dollar mansion. You can be raised by screaming parents and give your children the most joyous childhood. You can have whatever life you choose, but YOU have to work to achieve it. YOU have to make sacrifices and YOU have to choose to never let life knock you down. Continue reading “When Life Knocks, How Will You Answer?”